Nigerian music executive and talent manager Ubi Franklin has opened up about what he describes as the biggest mistake of his life, revealing that having children with different women is a decision he deeply regrets.
The entertainment executive made the emotional revelation in a video shared on his Instagram page, where he reflected on his personal journey, the realities of co-parenting, and the lessons he believes young men should learn from his experience.
Known for managing some of Nigeria’s biggest music stars and being one of the country’s most influential entertainment entrepreneurs, Franklin spoke candidly about a subject he admitted has shaped a significant part of his personal life.
According to him, if he were allowed to rewrite parts of his past, fathering children with multiple women would be one decision he would gladly change.
“My worst decision is having children with different women,” Franklin said.
The music executive did not hide his emotions as he reflected on the consequences of that choice, stressing that his regrets have nothing to do with his children.
Instead, he explained that the emotional complexities surrounding co-parenting with different mothers have proven to be far more difficult than many people imagine.
Expressing remorse, Franklin admitted that he often wishes he had approached that aspect of his life differently.
“I wish that some things had happened differently in my life, and this is one of them,” he said.
“I wish I had taken a different road on it.”
Franklin explained that raising children has never been the difficult part of his experience. According to him, he remains committed to being a responsible father and providing for his children.
However, he noted that maintaining healthy relationships with multiple co-parents comes with emotional challenges that money alone cannot solve.
“Taking care of them is not the problem,” he explained.
“But managing the emotions of the adults who are their mothers.”
The entertainment executive pointed out that many young men mistakenly believe financial success automatically makes complicated family arrangements easier to handle.
He insisted that this assumption is false, stressing that emotional stability and wise decision-making are far more important than wealth when it comes to building a family.
Using his own experiences as an example, Franklin urged young people to think beyond temporary pleasures and focus on making decisions that will benefit them in the long run.
He warned that regardless of fame, influence or financial status, the emotional responsibilities attached to parenthood should never be underestimated.
“No matter the money that you think you have, no matter what you think you are doing, trust me, that should never be anything that you are going to do or a decision you’re going to make in your life,” he said.
The talent manager also advised younger men to avoid situations commonly referred to as “baby mama drama,” describing them as emotionally exhausting and avoidable.
“So, I want to tell you something as young people: please and please, no matter the money you have or the life you want to live, let baby mama drama not be part of it.”
His remarks have since generated widespread reactions across social media platforms, with many Nigerians praising him for speaking honestly about an issue that many public figures rarely discuss openly.
Several users commended Franklin for taking responsibility for his choices instead of blaming others, describing his message as an important lesson for young men navigating relationships in today’s society.
Others noted that while his children should never be viewed as mistakes, his reflections highlight the importance of intentional family planning and emotional maturity before bringing children into the world.
Relationship experts have often argued that successful co-parenting requires communication, mutual respect and emotional intelligence, qualities that can become increasingly difficult to maintain when multiple families are involved.
Franklin’s comments have therefore reignited conversations about responsible fatherhood, marriage, co-parenting and the long-term consequences of personal decisions.
Over the years, Ubi Franklin has consistently shared moments with his children on social media, often expressing pride in his role as a father.
His latest statement, however, provides a deeper insight into the emotional realities behind the public image, revealing that financial provision is only one aspect of parenting.
Many observers believe his honesty could encourage more conversations about responsible relationships, emotional accountability and the importance of making thoughtful life decisions before starting a family.
As debates continue online, Franklin’s message serves as a reminder that wealth and celebrity status do not shield anyone from the emotional consequences of their choices.
For many young Nigerians looking up to successful public figures, his story underscores a simple but powerful lesson: financial success may solve many problems, but it cannot replace wisdom, emotional maturity and careful decision-making when it comes to family and relationships.
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