Men have shared their mixed feelings on the choice of having a penile enhancement to satisfy their partners. While most noted they would exercise caution with the matter, others showed a willingness to proceed if the funds were available.
This is coming on the heels of sad news about British-Nigerian businessman and influencer Igho “Tiny” Ubiribo, who died at 43 after undergoing a penis enlargement procedure while on a luxury trip to Thailand with his wife, Danielle Simba Allen.
A media consultant, Tony, noted that he would do so if the procedure were safe.
”Yes, I will consider a penile enhancement to spice up my love-making skills if the procedure is safe. I love my wife and will do anything for her, including satisfying her in bed.
”But penile enhancement can be risky, so I have mixed feelings on this. I will prefer to get enough information and weigh the pros and cons because love making is therapy and I love for me and my wife to derive the most satisfaction,” he said.
The media practitioner noted that indeed there is a booming market for anything related to sex, but caution must be exercised, and he doesn’t encourage the use of herbs to satisfy women except for their natural use.
A musician who wishes to remain anonymous said he would never do penile enhancement because he is aware of the risks and harped on regular exercise to maintain body flow.
The live performing artiste said, “I don’t think this is what I would consider for any reason. This is because I am not okay with altering my natural features in any way, especially how I appear and how I walk. Except it’s a life-threatening situation or something that can be sorted out medically in terms of an accident or something.
”I don’t subscribe to that personally – to allow a partner to do breast enlargement or to put foreign material like silicon into their system, he said.
The musician, who seemed knowledgeable, noted that controlling blood flow in the organ is needed, and that it is a sensitive issue, which he believes regular exercise can suffice for.
”The issue regarding the phallus is natural. If you exercise daily, blood flows through, and there is no blockage in the veins. That place has a lot of veins, and if there is any slight cut in those places, the bleeding will be very quick and can lead to the person passing away from excessive bleeding from a cut in the veins. So it’s a delicate place. I don’t know how people do operations on things like this.
”I will say it’s not something I’ll consider even morally. It is not a nice thing to do. The dangers and the negative implications are very high. There could be a possibility of losing one’s life, which has happened to this gentleman (Igho Ubiribo).”
Speaking further, he said many things are making the penile enhancement market rampant. Lack of knowledge and awareness is a major reason. In my opinion, people assume that the medical sector can provide interventions or health awareness for such situations. The first thing they think of is how to take medicine.
”They have not been able to make use of the knowledge from primary, secondary, and tertiary institutions. They have not been able to practically apply that knowledge in everyday life. You must understand how the body works and how various nutrients affect the organs in the body.
”People have that general infallibility on doctors, but they can make mistakes. The media also has a way of maintaining certain kinds of mindsets- social engineering. A lot of influencers are all over the place using the narrative that sex sells, and you need something to stimulate it. Actually, sex itself is antidepressant. You see the images of the opposite sex thrown in our faces. What people watch, images, movies, and even pornography, affects them. A lot of these things are not real.
”In my opinion, it’s not the size of the phallus that satisfies a woman. As long as it is hard and tender, it can be maintained during intercourse. Once you exercise, the blood will flow, no matter how big or how small. I don’t understand what these people are looking for.
”A lot of things are fueling the desire to change physical features. You see that by the time young girls finish secondary school, they begin to lighten their skin. Why are they doing that? They see other people doing it.
”Of course, there is a booming market for this, as there are cosmetic surgeons everywhere who help to enhance the body features. The market is there because many medical cosmetic procedures have been successful. Some have changed their sex through these procedures. Medications have altered the body’s hormones. I know someone who did a medical procedure on his phallus, but it went bad, and he started having sores. Fortunately for it, he got over it, and it turned out right. So he was lucky; some other people were not.”
He noted that, though there are natural herbs, many are adulterated, and people need to be careful.
”People have to be careful of what they take in, in case of herbs. There are organic and natural herbs that work, but I don’t know about them for penile enlargement.
