- Influencer Simisanya has advised singles to use the talking stage to ask practical questions that reveal long-term compatibility before entering a relationship.
- She said discussions should cover important issues such as genotype, cooking skills, generosity, social media behaviour, and personality traits to avoid future disappointment.
- According to her, understanding these factors early can help couples determine whether they are truly compatible before marriage becomes an option.
Influencer Simisanya, wife of popular videographer Femi Dapson, has advised singles to use the talking stage to ask practical questions that reveal compatibility before committing to a relationship.
Speaking on a recent episode of the Talk Your Talk podcast, she said conversations before dating should go beyond romance and cover important issues such as genotype, personality, lifestyle and values.
According to Simisanya, one of the first things prospective couples should find out is each other’s genotype to avoid future heartbreak.
“You get some things people can take. People should ask, ‘Are you AS or SS? Are you AA?’ So that if we actually date and later decide we want to marry, we won’t start running around when we discover we’re not compatible.”
She also encouraged singles to discuss everyday habits that could affect a relationship, including domestic expectations.
“Those are talking-stage questions. Ask, ‘Do you like fresh food?’ Because I don’t know how to cook, so we might not be compatible.”
The influencer added that a person’s social media behaviour can also reveal a lot about their character, urging people to find out if a potential partner constantly engages in online fights or trolling.
“Do you always go and fight on Twitter? Do you b£at girls? Are you a banga boy? Are you always on Instagram commenting and fighting? Are you a troll?”
She further advised singles to pay attention to how a potential partner treats others online, especially women, and to ask whether they are naturally generous or stingy before entering a relationship.
“Do you normally insult girls that ask questions like, ‘What do you bring to the table?’ Are you stingy? Are you generous? Those are very important questions.”
According to Simisanya, asking these questions early helps both people understand whether they are truly compatible and can prevent unnecessary conflicts or disappointments later in a relationship.
