“If Your Marriage Is K!!ing You, Leave” – Pastor Bolaji Tells Couples In Relationships Threatening Their Lives

• Pastor Bolaji has advised people to temporarily leave marriages or relationships that threaten their health, safety or lives rather than remain in dangerous situations.
• He urged couples to work on their relationship from outside the home and consider returning if the problems can be resolved, drawing support from social media users.

Pastor Bolaji has advised people to leave marriages and relationships that threaten their health, safety or lives, stressing that remaining in a harmful relationship should not be seen as a requirement of marriage.

Speaking on the issue, the clergyman said people facing dangerous situations should temporarily leave and work towards resolving their marital problems from outside the relationship.

“Any marriage or relationship that is threatening your health and life, pack your load and leave temporarily. Fix the marriage from outside. If it is fixable, then you come back. I will not say if your marriage is killing you, stay there. I don’t believe that,” he said.

His remarks have sparked reactions on X, with several users agreeing that nobody should risk their life to preserve a marriage or relationship.

Social Media Reactions

@Tweetdecatalyst: Nah who dey alive dey bear “mr” and “mrs” title o

@Heyitsbeth12: When you stay in an Abusive relationship or marriage you’re just being selfish to yourself.

@_ChikaUba: Some people need to hear this. Love should never cost you your peace, health or life. No relationship is worth losing yourself over.

@BxTie_: Preach to me sir, but some people will still stay, saying their culture doesn’t allow it Na when u die u go know say that culture no send u

@Dcreativepelumi: This is my type of mentality

@Dospage1: Thats the truth

@sadiq_u_know: Advise sha full mouth

@tonyseyi84: Fact

@jmoonlit0: Some people would rather cry in a Lamborghini than find peace in a Keke Napep. 😭